● Move from overwhelmed and reactive to informed, grounded, and in control
● Navigate the divorce process with greater clarity, direction, and confidence
● Make thoughtful, intentional decisions rather than reacting from fear, anger, or overwhelm
● Create a strategic path toward the best possible future for you and your family
Find clarity amidst the storm of your divorce.
Strategic Divorce & Custody Consulting
Your journey is uniquely your own.
No one else has lived your marriage, carried your burdens, experienced your heartbreak, or knows your children the way you do.
With three decades of experience as a divorce attorney handling cases ranging from amicable resolutions to scorched-earth litigation, I understand how overwhelming and destabilizing this process can feel. I use that experience to help you understand what’s ahead, evaluate your options, and move forward with clarity, confidence, and intention.
I have a soft spot for an underdog, someone who has been knocked down, but who is not invested in being a victim.
It’s ok, you just forgot who you are.
From Overwhelmed to Empowered
Ways to Work Together
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Considering separation—but feeling overwhelmed by what lies on the other side?
I’ll provide you with information about the different legal processes, assist you in getting things in order before you make any moves, and prepare you for what lies ahead.
With clarity, you can make an informed decision about whether separation is right for you and your family.
Struggling with the Decision to Divorce?
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High-conflict divorce can leave you living in a constant state of stress and instability, draining your energy and consuming every aspect of your life — especially when your future and your children are at stake.
I understand that it only takes one high-conflict person to keep the conflict alive.
You do not have to be controlled by it.
I help clients develop the tools, strategies, and mindset to navigate high-conflict dynamics with greater clarity and control, including:
- Effective communication
- Strong boundary setting
- Maintaining composure in the face of triggering behavior
- Responding strategically instead of emotionally
- Staying focused on your long-term goals and your children’s well-being
High-Conflict Divorce Coaching
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Trying to manage a household on your own…
Parenting under constant scrutiny and uncertainty…
Waiting for the next accusation, conflict, or crisis…
Putting out fires all day while losing sight of the bigger picture…
Exhausted by the anxiety of never knowing what comes next…
You do not have to stay in survival mode.
I help clients move from overwhelmed and reactive to grounded, strategic, and in control. Together, we will identify what matters most, create a clear plan, and approach the process one step at a time.
With clear goals and a thoughtful plan, you can move out of survival mode, quiet the anxiety, regain a sense of stability and control, and make grounded decisions that positively shape the future for you and your children.
Feeling Overwhelmed?
Divorce Coaching
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Hiring Rebecca is like hiring your best friend, who cares about what you are going through, prioritizes your desired outcomes, and is fearlessly committed to setting you up for success, long term. Rebecca can see your ex for exactly who they are and is an expert at helping you navigate communication with them through the entire process.
Hiring Rebecca is like hiring your best friend...
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Rebecca is a calming influence no matter what the situation. She doesn’t offer simple platitudes; but rather takes in your situation and offers sound, practical advice on how to move forward. She has walked me through what felt like overwhelming circumstances and broken the tasks and elements into manageable pieces. I felt heard, respected, and part of a team with Rebecca.
I feel heard, respected, and part of a team...
- Cosper Scafidi
Rebecca gave me hope and possibility in one of the darkest periods of my life. Her compassion and expertise changed my perspective and ultimately my outcomes. I trust her implicitly.
gave me hope and possibility in one of the darkest periods of my life
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Rebecca is incredibly insightful and efficient with getting to the point, which is so helpful with today’s busy schedules. Time with Rebecca is so well spent. I’m happy, successful and my children are healthy and thriving. This is owed in huge part to Rebecca’s empathetic and emotional support, legal knowledge and practical guidance.
Time with Rebecca is so well spent.
If you answered yes to any of these questions, you are in the right place.
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Considering separation, but terrified of what comes next
Feeling lost after years of conflict, marriage, and putting everyone else first
Constantly on the defensive, struggling just to keep your head above water
Walking on eggshells with a high-conflict or narcissistic ex
Overwhelmed by the emotional and logistical demands of divorce
Paralyzed by the fear that one wrong decision could change everything
Struggling to communicate effectively with your attorney or other professionals
Finding that even after the divorce is final, the conflict still controls your life
Does Any of This Sound Familiar?
Viktor Frankl
"When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves."
