Develop a comprehensive understanding of the divorce process and take charge of your proceedings, ensuring every decision is made with careful consideration and forethought, to secure the optimal results for you and your family.
Find clarity amidst the storm of your divorce.
Strategic Divorce & Custody Consulting
Your journey is unique—no one else has walked in your shoes, lived with your spouse, felt your joys and pains, or knows your children like you do. With nearly three decades of experience as a divorce attorney, I’ve handled hundreds of divorce and custody cases ranging from amicable to scorched earth.
I can share the numerous strategies that I have developed throughout my career to help you prepare for today’s challenges as well as those that lie ahead. I have a soft spot for an underdog, someone who has been knocked down, but who is not invested in being a victim. It’s ok, you just forgot who you are. I can provide you with the tools and guidance that will allow you to reclaim your power and rebuild your life.
Divorce & Custody Consultant
Meet Rebecca
Ways to Work Together
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Do you feel overwhelmed, trying to manage a household on your own, struggling to master the art of being a single parent, constantly wondering when your ex will strike again, putting out one fire after another with no clear plan, and filled with dread and anxiety about tomorrow’s potential crises?
I can help you to regain a sense of control over your life. Together we can ascertain your highest priorities in the divorce and then create a plan to achieve those goals- one step at a time. Having well-defined goals and an action plan will allow you to restore your sense of autonomy, alleviating the unrelenting anxiety you have been experiencing, and this will be reflected in your children’s disposition.
Divorce Coaching
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Considering separation but feeling overwhelmed by what lies on the other side? I’ll provide you with information about the different legal processes, assist you in getting things in order before you make any moves, and prepare you for what lies ahead. With clarity, you can make an informed decision as to whether a separation is right for you and your family.
Struggling with the Decision to Divorce?
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Your divorce or custody orders are final, but the conflict is still raging. I know that it only takes one high conflict individual to perpetuate the controversy. I can provide you with the tools and resources for effective communication, boundary setting, and learning to maintain your composure when confronted with historically triggering behaviors.
High-Conflict Divorce Coaching
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Hiring Rebecca is like hiring your best friend, who cares about what you are going through, prioritizes your desired outcomes, and is fearlessly committed to setting you up for success, long term. Rebecca can see your ex for exactly who they are and is an expert at helping you navigate communication with them through the entire process.
Hiring Rebecca is like hiring your best friend...
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Rebecca is a calming influence no matter what the situation. She doesn’t offer simple platitudes; but rather takes in your situation and offers sound, practical advice on how to move forward. She has walked me through what felt like overwhelming circumstances and broken the tasks and elements into manageable pieces. I felt heard, respected, and part of a team with Rebecca.
I feel heard, respected, and part of a team...
- Cosper Scafidi
Rebecca gave me hope and possibility in one of the darkest periods of my life. Her compassion and expertise changed my perspective and ultimately my outcomes. I trust her implicitly.
gave me hope and possibility in one of the darkest periods of my life
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Rebecca is incredibly insightful and efficient with getting to the point, which is so helpful with today’s busy schedules. Time with Rebecca is so well spent. I’m happy, successful and my children are healthy and thriving. This is owed in huge part to Rebecca’s empathetic and emotional support, legal knowledge and practical guidance.
Time with Rebecca is so well spent.
If you answered yes to any of these questions, you are in the right place.
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Are you constantly on the defensive and struggling to keep your head above water?
Are you considering a separation but overwhelmed by what that would do to your life?
Are you usually on top of things, but you simply don’t have the time to devote to the logistics of your divorce?
Have you lost sight of who you are- having been a spouse and a parent for so long, particularly one who was often embroiled in conflict?
Are you being asked to make important decisions, but you are paralyzed by the fear that you might make a mistake?
Do you feel like you are not able to effectively communicate with your attorney?
Is your divorce finalized, but the conflict persists?
Are you dealing with a high-conflict or narcissistic ex?
Viktor Frankl
"When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves."
